As a woman who has come out of an unhealthy relationship due to domestic violence I just want EVERYONE to know what to look out for in the beginning and as time moves forward, I myself have come to the realisation that being humiliated, physically abused, Emotionally abused & Mentally abused ISN'T what you call "LOVE" no matter how many times that person apologises.

In the beginning things will seem perfect, you will feel happy and healthy, you will embrace all that you have within your relationship he calls you "Beautiful", says things like "You're my everything" makes you feel so loved within a short amount of time but as time progresses and he continues to get more comfortable his TRUE COLOURS RISE TO THE SURFACE.

This same person who made you feel like YOU WERE ON TOP OF THE WORLD eventually becomes narcissistic, manipulative and conniving. This certain individual begins to make you feel like it's YOUR fault, they begin to start breaking you down slowly saying "Well you shouldn't have done it", "You're the one who didn't listen to me in the first place", "You brought me to this point" or "It's your attitude maybe you should change it" & the physical abuse begins. Understand that YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE TO CHANGE YOURSELF TO MAKE ANOTHER PERSON HAPPY. No excuse is good enough for this type of behaviour, you're allowed to feel comfortable in your own shoes. The days, months & years drag along and you feel depressed, beaten, uncomfortable and most of all UNHAPPY these things shouldn't be hidden feeling this way should ALLOW YOU TO TALK AND EXPRESS YOURSELF in ways you couldn't during your abuse.

I know that you as a person aren't perfect but truth be told WHO IS? Nobody is we all make mistakes and play our part but if you choose to get out and make a change for your future then who can discourage your well-being? NOBODY. Remember there are plenty of people out there to help you and support you, find them, love them & keep your head up and your heart strong. You're a diamond in the rough 💖💜💖💜